Obama: Master of Communication
Obama launches effort to 'communicate' in
Mideast
"My job is to communicate the fact
that the United States has a stake in the well-being of the Muslim
world, that the language we use has to be a language of respect. I
have Muslim members of my family. I have lived in Muslim
countries," the president told Al Arabiya. "My job to the Muslim
world is to communicate that the Americans are not your enemy. We
sometimes make mistakes. We have not been
perfect."
This is the most
powerful man in the world speak. Notice that the word 'communicate'
has been used twice in the short passage. Mr. Obama, with all his
resources still realizes the importance of communication and
persuation in today's world.
Without discussing
President Obama any further let us look at
'communication'.
Communication
means 'interaction' between persons, or to a crowd in order to send
your 'message' across. Interpersonal communication is considered
as a 'skill' since our relationships depent on it.
The importance of
communication can not be overstated, be it in politics, workplace
or our everyday lives.
Wars are fought,
employees and customers lost, and marriges end as a result of poor
communication, yet most of us do little to improve our
interpersonal communication skills.
The following are
some of the points to keep in mind for a more effctive
communication.
- Be clear: A straight forward approach
always works best in getting your message across. While elaborating
your point you can use examples, jokes and short stories, however
it is important not to loose focus.
- Think before you speak: Selection of
the correct words is of utmost importance in both spoken and
written communication. Giving thought to how the words will sound
to the other person can eliminate the risk of misunderstandings and
in moments of annoyance, we can avoid saying/writing something that
we may regret later. Speaking slowly can help give us time to
think.
- Listen: Communication is a two way
street - listening and feedback are very important for
communication to be effective. By attentive listening and providing
appropriate feedbace we can establish a rapport with the other
person. This will make both feel rich and fulfilled because they
were both heard and understood.
- Respect and regard for others:
Effective communication is only possible by showing genuine regard
for the other person, otherwise the other person tends to close-off
and communication breaks down. Mutual respect and empathy are
essencial elements for effictive communication.
- Body language: Communication process is significantly improved when interactive body language responses are engaged. This is one reason why direct communication is sometimes more effective than telephonic or written communication.
The internet is
full of advice and tips for improving interpersonal communication.
We need to make an effort and imbibe these ideas because effective
interpersonal communication can lead to a more peaceful and
fulfilling life.
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